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> <channel><title>Comments on: Ding! The Urgent vs. the Important In Our Lives</title> <atom:link href="http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/</link> <description>Helping Creative People Create</description> <lastBuildDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:01:45 +0000</lastBuildDate> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2</generator> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <item><title>By: More Than DodgeBall &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Urgent Keeps Us from the Important</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-13185</link> <dc:creator>More Than DodgeBall &#187; Blog Archive &#187; The Urgent Keeps Us from the Important</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:24:55 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-13185</guid> <description>[...] it relates to relationships, especially as I mull over One Month to Live. Here&#8217;s a clip from The Urgent vs. The Important: Unfortunately, focusing on the urgent ensures that we’ll never get to the important. In order to [...]</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] it relates to relationships, especially as I mull over One Month to Live. Here&#8217;s a clip from The Urgent vs. The Important: Unfortunately, focusing on the urgent ensures that we’ll never get to the important. In order to [...]</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Francis</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-7346</link> <dc:creator>Francis</dc:creator> <pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 17:40:16 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-7346</guid> <description>I enjoyed this post immensely, and it fits in with some of the habits I have had to create for myself.I remember a study that was shared with me in the 1990&#039;s regarding software programmer productivity, in which they found that the  number one variable that impacted productivity the most was &quot;office space.&quot;In other words, the larger the office, the more likely it was to have a door, and the more likely the programmer could create the peace and quiet needed to program.That has stayed with me ever since.I imagine a zone of quiet around me when I need to focus on a single task, and I allow little to interrupt it (when I&#039;m being good!) including phones, emails, etc.  When I re-open the zone to start taking inputs, I take them all at once, checking email, voicemail, F&#039;book messages, etc one after the other.The book &quot;Flow&quot; by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi was also useful to me in learning why the peak experience is so important to doing deep work.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed this post immensely, and it fits in with some of the habits I have had to create for myself.</p><p>I remember a study that was shared with me in the 1990&#8217;s regarding software programmer productivity, in which they found that the  number one variable that impacted productivity the most was &#8220;office space.&#8221;</p><p>In other words, the larger the office, the more likely it was to have a door, and the more likely the programmer could create the peace and quiet needed to program.</p><p>That has stayed with me ever since.</p><p>I imagine a zone of quiet around me when I need to focus on a single task, and I allow little to interrupt it (when I&#8217;m being good!) including phones, emails, etc.  When I re-open the zone to start taking inputs, I take them all at once, checking email, voicemail, F&#8217;book messages, etc one after the other.</p><p>The book &#8220;Flow&#8221; by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi was also useful to me in learning why the peak experience is so important to doing deep work.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Katie Williams</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6991</link> <dc:creator>Katie Williams</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2008 20:47:10 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6991</guid> <description>It&#039;s a mindset. You have to learn to be okay with not responding to the urgent at the very moment it arrives. If you allow yourself fall into the trap of always being accessible then you are training your colleagues, friends and family to expect an instant response all the time. It just snowballs from there. They will begin to text, call or IM not because they need to, but because they can. On the rare occasion when you don&#039;t  or can&#039;t respond right away,  they think you&#039;ve been kidnapped, been in a car wreck or they get offended that you put them off.I leave my phone in the car when I&#039;m watching my kids play sports. Two weeks ago my mom called 5 times because my grandmother was being rushed to the hospital. I felt awful for not &quot;being there&quot; to get the calls but the reality is, that even if I had answered, there was nothing that I could have done to make her better or get her to the hospital more quickly. She was already in good medical hands and being cared for.So if you happen to miss that one urgent call it might mean that someone had to move forward with decision on their own, your kids might not have any milk for cereal in the morning or the person on the other end of the line might have to call 911 to come rescue them, but things will get taken care of and life will go on.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a mindset. You have to learn to be okay with not responding to the urgent at the very moment it arrives. If you allow yourself fall into the trap of always being accessible then you are training your colleagues, friends and family to expect an instant response all the time. It just snowballs from there. They will begin to text, call or IM not because they need to, but because they can. On the rare occasion when you don&#8217;t  or can&#8217;t respond right away,  they think you&#8217;ve been kidnapped, been in a car wreck or they get offended that you put them off.</p><p>I leave my phone in the car when I&#8217;m watching my kids play sports. Two weeks ago my mom called 5 times because my grandmother was being rushed to the hospital. I felt awful for not &#8220;being there&#8221; to get the calls but the reality is, that even if I had answered, there was nothing that I could have done to make her better or get her to the hospital more quickly. She was already in good medical hands and being cared for.</p><p>So if you happen to miss that one urgent call it might mean that someone had to move forward with decision on their own, your kids might not have any milk for cereal in the morning or the person on the other end of the line might have to call 911 to come rescue them, but things will get taken care of and life will go on.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Kevin Crenshaw</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6886</link> <dc:creator>Kevin Crenshaw</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2008 00:37:19 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6886</guid> <description>1. &lt;b&gt;Make the Calendar your default view&lt;/b&gt; (instead of the email Inbox) if you can. In Outlook, go to Tools &gt; Options &gt; Other Tab &gt; General &gt;  &quot;Advanced Options&quot; &gt; Startup &gt; Choose &quot;Calendar&quot;.2. &lt;b&gt;Smarten your GTD system #1: &quot;Triage&quot; incoming emails&lt;/b&gt;. This separates the important from the seemingly urgent. At up to 2 min. each, full-blown &quot;processing&quot; leads to Doing a lot of little, urgent things. See this article:
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.priacta.com/Articles/Email_Time_Management.shtml#EmailTypes&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Three Kinds of Email&lt;/a&gt;3. &lt;b&gt;Smarten your GTD system #2: Time boxing.&lt;/b&gt; Tag &quot;Important&quot; tasks in their categories, then look at only those categories at the right times. Some GTD software can do that automatically. Look for the &quot;time categorization&quot; feature in this list:
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.priacta.com/Articles/Comparison_of_GTD_Software.php&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt; Exhaustive Comparison of GTD Software&lt;/a&gt;P.S. Turning off email reminders was already suggested. Here are instructions for that in Outlook:
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.priacta.com/Articles/How_To_Disable_Outlook_Email_Notification.shtml&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Turning Off Email Reminders in Outlook&lt;/a&gt;</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. <b>Make the Calendar your default view</b> (instead of the email Inbox) if you can. In Outlook, go to Tools &gt; Options &gt; Other Tab &gt; General &gt;  &#8220;Advanced Options&#8221; &gt; Startup &gt; Choose &#8220;Calendar&#8221;.</p><p>2. <b>Smarten your GTD system #1: &#8220;Triage&#8221; incoming emails</b>. This separates the important from the seemingly urgent. At up to 2 min. each, full-blown &#8220;processing&#8221; leads to Doing a lot of little, urgent things. See this article:<br
/> <a
href="http://www.priacta.com/Articles/Email_Time_Management.shtml#EmailTypes" rel="nofollow">Three Kinds of Email</a></p><p>3. <b>Smarten your GTD system #2: Time boxing.</b> Tag &#8220;Important&#8221; tasks in their categories, then look at only those categories at the right times. Some GTD software can do that automatically. Look for the &#8220;time categorization&#8221; feature in this list:<br
/> <a
href="http://www.priacta.com/Articles/Comparison_of_GTD_Software.php" rel="nofollow"> Exhaustive Comparison of GTD Software</a></p><p>P.S. Turning off email reminders was already suggested. Here are instructions for that in Outlook:<br
/> <a
href="http://www.priacta.com/Articles/How_To_Disable_Outlook_Email_Notification.shtml" rel="nofollow">Turning Off Email Reminders in Outlook</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Ann</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6878</link> <dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 22:23:17 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6878</guid> <description>Strange coincidence; I just posted about the &quot;big rocks&quot; anecdote in Stephen Covey&#039;s First Things First, which specifically speaks to the urgent v. the important. I&#039;ve always thought it was a great analogy.My &quot;urgent addiction&quot; usually comes in the form of obsessively checking email (I&#039;m trying to use The Now Habit to do better) but now a very close second is BLOGS - reading and posting - oh dear!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Strange coincidence; I just posted about the &#8220;big rocks&#8221; anecdote in Stephen Covey&#8217;s First Things First, which specifically speaks to the urgent v. the important. I&#8217;ve always thought it was a great analogy.</p><p>My &#8220;urgent addiction&#8221; usually comes in the form of obsessively checking email (I&#8217;m trying to use The Now Habit to do better) but now a very close second is BLOGS &#8211; reading and posting &#8211; oh dear!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Michael Henreckson</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6871</link> <dc:creator>Michael Henreckson</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 21:42:04 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6871</guid> <description>Try setting the text notification to silent. Then just check your phone when you&#039;re bored.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Try setting the text notification to silent. Then just check your phone when you&#8217;re bored.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: glen</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6824</link> <dc:creator>glen</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:45:07 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6824</guid> <description>@Mark: Agreed! :)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Mark: Agreed! :)</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Mark Griep</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6804</link> <dc:creator>Mark Griep</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 13:43:17 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6804</guid> <description>Pavlovian...Ding. I&#039;m about to consume another yummy text message.What a distressing state. I can&#039;t wait for a renaissance.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pavlovian&#8230;</p><p>Ding. I&#8217;m about to consume another yummy text message.</p><p>What a distressing state. I can&#8217;t wait for a renaissance.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: glen</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6744</link> <dc:creator>glen</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 05:21:03 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6744</guid> <description>Great tips guys. Keep &#039;em coming!@casper: I agree, text messages are much friendlier than phone calls. However, they&#039;re still invasive. They ring or buzz and demand attention (or try to demand it, anyway).</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great tips guys. Keep &#8216;em coming!</p><p>@casper: I agree, text messages are much friendlier than phone calls. However, they&#8217;re still invasive. They ring or buzz and demand attention (or try to demand it, anyway).</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Shannon C</title><link>http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/comment-page-1/#comment-6725</link> <dc:creator>Shannon C</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 00:28:07 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://lifedev.net/2008/04/ding-the-urgent-vs-the-important-in-our-lives/#comment-6725</guid> <description>I don&#039;t seem to be able to edit my last comment, but just wanted to clarify #2 that people know that this is my policy, and they know that they can email me if it&#039;s really urgent.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t seem to be able to edit my last comment, but just wanted to clarify #2 that people know that this is my policy, and they know that they can email me if it&#8217;s really urgent.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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