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I recently have been checking out the various “list” programs via Techcrunch that allow you to save items to your list, in hopes that your friends and family will buy what you want for a change. No more weird coffee mugs, no more sweaters that your dog wouldn’t wear. Now there will be no excuse why your loved ones can’t get you the perfect gift this year.

But if they are your friends and family, I really hope they don’t take your advice on what to get you this Christmas.

You see, the whole spirit of Christmas is giving. Arguably the second greatest feeling in the world is when someone has given you a truly thoughtful gift. (The only feeling better is being the person to give it.) When you make a Christmas list, you’re putting an obligation on the buyer to not use any creativity or thoughtfulness, but rather to purchase that Red Ryder BB Gun. But now the ‘gift” has become an obligation, no longer making it a true gift. Now it’s more like a payment. Like rent.

Knowing that someone cares enough to keep you in their thoughts in the busiest time of the year is something special. Don’t cheapen it by not allowing them the pleasure of giving the perfect gift, or by not allowing you to receive it.

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